Love is a B!tch

To not be able to love anything, is antithetical to the design of how God wanted things to work.

However to love means to be vulnerable (C.S. Lewis)

It is unfortunate that even from birth man must first face its first double-bind.

Love means Risk, and to Not Love is to not Live

The challenge of this paradox, is one that is resolved within the wounds of the savior himself, Christ. That for him he had to love his creation, but he also put risk starting from the utter point of human existence. Although God taking a chance on humans looks bad from the start, the beauty of this risk slowly arose as the predestined unfortunate death of Christ happened. This provided an avenue for love to return to its creator.

So we have the jeopardy that love brings, but we also have the blossoming of hope too.

Hope is something that one struggles to find its origin.  However, as one who isn’t a licensed scientist, but just an explorer of this earth and its interactions. One can easily gain tangible evidence of hope, when observing people struggling, and they overcome their struggle. That is where you will confidently find a droplet of pure hope. It is in our struggle we find hope. In addition, it is where the beauty arises in love. When a person is willing to give of themselves not for their own success or providence but to give that love to someone else, we find pure and true love in that unconditional act of humility.

When love is given without asking for something in return, it is when love cannot be consider a fool’s choice, but a wise person choice.

Or Maybe that’s wrong? – Could you really love someone and not become a fool?

I think it would a disappointing life, to live your whole life with your heart locked up, becoming this unbreakable, strong person, who has no emotions, because their heart is locked up in a tiny closet, far far far away from any chance of it being taken.

I think that when you love someone, there is always opportunity to get hurt.

But we also have to realize that we can hurt too (Joyce Meyer).

We have to have faith, rather then fear, that love will eb and flow in our relationships, as we eb and flow with our flaws, and faux pas.